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TIPS FOR SHY LESBIANS

We’ve all been there. You see someone across a stack of oranges at the grocery store who looks interesting, fun, exactly your type. But as soon as you realize you’d like to meet them, your palms begin to sweat and your tongue ties itself into a big lumpy knot. You can’t just walk up and start talking to a perfect stranger, your mind whispers. They’ll laugh at you, snub you, think you’re some kind of creep. Paralyzed by fear, you watch your dream date flit away—again and again and again.

Well, it doesn’t have to be like that. People need to stop worrying, stop making up dumb excuses, stop the fake fear. Real fear is when you’re on a hiking trail and a mountain lion steps out in front of you. Standing next to a woman in the grocery store whom you’re attracted to and not being able to talk to them is not fear. That’s an excuse.” So how do you nix all that nervousness?

STOP CRITIQUING YOURSELF. “Anxiety produces what I call Monkey Chatter,” "voices in your head that discourage you from taking action.” People need to quit being so hard on themselves especially shy types.Read More Lesbian Dating